
First, I must apologize for not posting recently. My work has taken over my life of late and I wasn’t quite prepared for the 18 deadlines that all happened to be set for yesterday. I found out about a few of them yesterday morning.
In the past week or so, I disapproved a comment (i.e., did not let it be publicly visible) and received a follow-up comment that asked: “why have you taken out my post?”
Today I think it’s only fair to clarify my policy regarding comments. I value relevant comments, including criticism and suggestions for improving this blog. Currently, I moderate comments before they are actually made public. This means I read and approve the first comment by any reader of this blog. When I do not approve a comment, I’ve tried to contact the person who posted the comment using the email address that they provided. So far, 100% of my attempts to make contact have resulted in “this is not a valid email address” autoresponders.
Here are my reasons for not approving a comment:
1. The comment is a recommendation for a product, service or business opportunity that is obviously simply using this blog’s comment space as a free ad. After I have disapproved the comment, I send the commenter an email with an explanation. If I find that the commenter is a real person who sincerely recommends the product, service or business opportunity, I may reconsider approving the comment, although I may edit it to include a personal and company disclaimer for this blog.
2. The comment contains offensive language. I believe that negative comments, disagreement, and criticism can be civil. Nevertheless, I may approve comments that contain modified spellings of words generally considered “foul language” in certain contexts. (Some of my own posts may contain what some might consider ”foul language,” but I will try to remember to include warnings for those posts.) Context is everything, but it is not the only thing.
3. The comment is sexually explicit (but I will not necessarily disapprove relevant comments by readers with provocative user names).
4. The comment contains hate speech. Hate and prejudice exist in the world. That is reality. I wish it weren’t the case. However, I will not approve comments that deride, ridicule, or promote hate of any individual or group. The commenter can always revise the original comment and I may approve the revised version.
I may find other reasons to disapprove comments as I mature as a blogger, but the above describes my current list.
Here are my reasons for approving comments:
1. The comment relates directly to the post. It can be positive, negative, critical, thoughtful, funny, oblique, poetic, almost unintelligible, or vaguely dissonant.
2. The comment doesn’t appear to be directly related to the post, but is about this blog or the general topics discussed in this blog.
3. The comment recommends a product, service, or business opportunity as an aside to a comment about the post, this blog, or the topics discussed in this blog, but is not a blatant advertisement. It would take an entirely separate post for me to describe how this is different from the product, service, or business opportunity comments that I would not approve. I can only say that when you read the comment, some are just over the top and others have an aura of authenticity. If I have doubts, I disapprove the comment and send email to the email address of the person who posted the comment. As noted above, if the person and recommendation are real, I will usually reconsider and approve the comment.
I do appreciate the comments of everyone who has taken the time to let me know their thoughts, and I hope that you’ll feel free to share your thoughts about this and any other post on this blog.
If you’re a blogger, how do you handle comments? Do you moderate comments? If so, what criteria do you use? And how do you address offensive or spam comments? I’d love to know your best practices so that I can refine my own.
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